Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

[darkwing_uop]

if that is the case, just cool it down and just let it happen

[kurtsky]

if that is the case, just cool it down and just let it happen

Oo nga sir, mahirap kasi i distinguish kung friendly lang yung babae

[Daniel]

just believe that all of them are friendly

[deathzero23]

Lahat sila friendly. Chill down and just enjoy what's on the plate. Don't ask too much.

[darkwing_uop]

if that is the case, just cool it down and just let it happen

Oo nga sir, mahirap kasi i distinguish kung friendly lang yung babae

they are supposed to be friendly, it's a work environment, do you have any sisters or female cousins while growing up?

[kurtsky]

only child ako sir. never had a girlfriend.
gf ko ps3 ko.

[Daniel]

do you have cousins?

[ChardPurple]

Or mga college/high school friends?

Naisip ko lang dapat yata - kurtsky's lovelife (or lack thereof) ang title ng thread na 'to.

[deathzero23]

Basta kurtsky chill ka lang...
Siguro, dahil lumaki kang nag-iisa at nasanay ka kaya ka ganyan..
Why not hang out with guys where you can learn some real life good stuffs?
Hindi mga gamers lang.. Get out from your comfort zone and learn big stuffs?
Makipag-kaibigan ka lang... and you're gonna learn a lot.
There's so many things going on with our life and gaming is just a very small thing on it.

[kurtsky]

Haha pasensiya mga bro. Change topic na lols

[grayfox17]

fyi: magkaiba ang pagiging friendly sa pagiging civil. Pag sinabi mong civil yan yung nagtanong ka tapos haharapin at sasagutin ka lang din ng maayos - part ng professionalism yan so madalas ma-identify mo sila pag yung conversation nyo eh isang tanong isang sagot, pag friendly naman yan yung tropahan na ang level nyo.

Pero kapag simpleng civility eh hindi ka na pinapakitaan ng ibang tao, isa lang ibig sabihin nun - they don't want to do anything with you.

[deathzero23]

^I agree with that... Civil vs Friendly. Know the difference.
Hindi dahil kinakausap ka may chemistry na kayo.. Wala yun. Walang-wala.

Just try to be someone na people can depend on you. By that, marami ka nang magiging kaibigan o kakilala.
Real friends not only civil people. From there baka maka-swerte ka na. Basta wag madaliin.

[grayfox17]

Mas ok pa rin talaga na kilalanin ng maayos yung tsiks, ugali pa naman kasi nila ang pagiging "tease." Yan yung mga paasa type na akala mo may something na sayo kasi lapit ng lapit at lagi nahingi ng pabor pero wala pala. Meron din namang super friendly pag kausap at kaharap mo sa ofis pero may saltik ng pagka-bitchy pala.

Rule of thumb para malaman agad kung dapat pag aksayahan ng panahon ang isang tsik is alamin mo muna ang bad side nya. Ang good side kasi napepeke dahil madali mamlastik ng tao kaya ang siste, tropahin mo muna kasi dun unti-unti mo mapapalabas ang bad side ng mga yan - magandang example na dyan yung mga klase ng babae na mabait nga sa tropa or mahinhin kumilos pero pag naging kayo na maya't maya naman sinusubukan ang pasensya mo na imbes na maging happy ka parati ka naman kunsumido.

Meron pa, yung mga tsiks na ok sa halos lahat ng bagay, mabait, mahinhin, may itsura, may dating - as in wala ka na masasabi pa physically engkaso sabaw pala ang utak. Mga simpleng bagay na hindi nya kayang diskartehan at iaasa pa syo. Mga pabebe kumbaga. Ilan lang yan sa mga sample ng mga dapat iwasan and im sure madami dito may worse pang pinagdaanan sa babae.

[triple_zzz]

I just want to share... http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2 ... a-feeling/

[summer_fox]

Hi Guys, bagong salta lang ako dito, medyo makikigulo lang.

Share lang ng kinikimkim kong damdamin:
I'm married since Oct 2014, it is almost a year now. We're happy, or at least I'm trying to be.

Ang problema kasi, there is this girl from my past na di ko makalimutan. She was a HS friend, back then di naman talaga kami close, but we met again 2 years ago when I worked overseas. To cut the story short, I fell in love with her kahit kami pa nung fiancee ko. It was a roller coaster ride until I've decided na panindigan ko ang mga binitiwan kong salita, which is to marry my fiancee.

The first few months after the marriage kala ko ok na ako, na nakabalik ako without regrets and that I will not look back.

With the girl, we stayed as friends for a while, I would message her from time to time just to check if she's doing fine.

Pero one day, I woke up and it hits me. I love her...
I long for her as if I can't live without her. I tried reaching out again but this time she already decided to cut me off from her life. Masakit... but wala naman ako ibang masisisi.

Now, I'm starting to doubt my decisions. Wishing that time travel is real, or at least there is a parallel universe where we are together.

I know, unfair sa wife ko, but I'm trying to be the man she wants me to be.

Sorry po sa drama. Just need an outlet for this.

[grayfox17]

^you're just bored. wag ka na maghanap ng wala at makuntento ka na lang sa kung anong meron ka. yun lang.

[summer_fox]

Siguro nga sir.
Sinisubukan ko naman talaga mag focus sa wife ko, pero ang hirap kasi lagi talaga pumapasok sa isip ko si other girl kahit wala na kami communication whatsoever.

[deathzero23]

may nakita ka na sa kanya na wala sa wife mo. well that happens a lot and it's normal.
it's just a matter of handling it.

[charliedrama]

@summer_fox dude wake up. Walang babaeng perfect pero yung asawa mo sinagot ka ng oo at wag mo naman baliwain yung pag-oo niya sayo.. Otherwise slippery slope yan pre, masisiraan ka ng bait sa kakatext sa babae na yan pre. Ano maiisip ng asawa mo knowing na "sinusubukan mo magfocus sa wife ko" ang sinasagot mo dito pre. Payo ko lang sa yo focus ka sa wife mo at mag-pray ka pre for strength pre. Kaya mo yan. Ang temptation laging nandyan pre kahit saan pero nasa sa atin paano ihandle.

[deathzero23]

Kaya nakakainggit yung mga nakatagpo ng ideal partners nila na total package. Yung kung ano hiniling nila sa mga dasal nila.
Yung mga tipong kulang na lang sabihin nila, "perfect". (although reality, no one's perfect)

Pero napapaisip din ako. Na di kaya pag masyado kang napagbibigyan eh may malaking kapalit sa huli?