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Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2017 4:02 am
by javaChip56
Hindi naman siguro nan-ttrip.. Palagay ko genuinely friendly lang talaga sya. Halos walang improvement sir eh, bukod sa araw-araw na kame nag-uusap sa whatsapp..

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2017 10:14 am
by grayfox17
hmmm....hangout nga lang talaga yan. Just because she let you pay for everything it doesnt qualify right away as a date. Wag mo na pag aksayahan ng pera, oras at topup yan pre, naghahanap lang talaga ng kausap yan. Magpaka-casual ka na lang sa kanya at iwasan mo na lang makipag-date. Sa pagkaka-kuwento mo tungkol sa kanya, she's the kind of girl na bored nga and would just welcome any conversation that comes her way. Yun lang. Kung pumirmi ka na lang sa bahay nakapahinga ka pa at nakatipid habang kausap mo na lang sa whatsapp.

Onga pala, malapit na rin vday. Kung ako syo, dont even try to ask her out. I-greet mo na lang. Dont even try to give her a gift dahil baka kung ano pa isipin nyan. Eto pa isang paraan to know kung may something sya syo, kung nag eeffort sya to do something FOR you then dun pwede pa, pero pag puro nasa yo lang ang effort then obviously there's nothing special going on.

Kami dito nagpapayo lang syo at di namin actual na nakikita ang nangyayari syo inyong dalawa in real time kaya ikaw na lang talaga makaka-tantsa sa sa kilos ng girl. Eto lang pre, alam mo naman sitwasyon ng mga foreigner dyan di ba? di malayong may kinalaman din yun kung kaya ganyan lang ang treatment nya sa yo.

For your sake, uulitin ko, mas importante ang work pass pre kesa sa lablayp. Try not to do something that could get you into trouble lalo na sa mga lokal alam mo naman na iba ang mindset ng mga tao dyan.

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2017 12:56 pm
by Sn@kemaru
^ Agree ako sa sinabi ni grayfox. Maging casual ka na lang siguro, pafs Javachips. Wag na mag-expect pa kung ano man ang status with her.
It's about time na rin siguro na sya naman ang antayin mo mag gawa ng move/diskarte.

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2017 5:48 pm
by DarkRushBeat
I'll just leave this here...

Sya yung bumati sa akin personally sa FB nung NY...Nag migrate na sa Canada with her husband....

Master daw ako sabi ng 1 katropa naten dito eh.... :mrgreen:

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Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2017 7:45 pm
by javaChip56
@Snake and grayfox
Thanks mga bossing. You guys could not have said it any better. I realized she really hasn't done anything for me.. Siguro na-enjoy ko lang din yung attention na binibigay nya pag nag-uusap kame both in person and through chat. Pero 1 thing na natutunan ko about sa sarili ko through this experience is kaya ko palang mag maintain ng conversation with a woman I like. I was able to keep the conversation flowing and keep interested without thinking too much like before.. Siguro praktisin ko pa ito with other women.. :D

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2017 8:56 pm
by Sn@kemaru
@DarkRushBeat: Maganda sya ah. Baka naman mayroon sya gusto ipahiwatig sa iyo nung binati ka nya? hahaha lagyan daw ba ng malisya. :bigmouth:

@javaChip: balitaan mo pa rin kami ha after mo maging 'casual' dun sa girl. Tignan natin kung makakalahata sya sa pagbabago mo towards her.
Paano kapag nag-aya sya ulit na lumabas kayo, sama ka ulit? What if gawa ka naman ng excuse to turn down her offer?

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2017 11:37 pm
by javaChip56
@Snake
Hindi lang casual ang gagawin ko sir, "cold"..
Ginawa ko na yun dati a few times, pero nagsstart sya ng conversations.. Siguro ganun na nga lang gagawin ko ulit. We'll see what'll happen.

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2017 7:32 am
by grayfox17
Kung magiging cold ka sa kanya then dapat panindigan mo. Pag sa opis nilapitan ka nya about work then magpaka-civil ka na lang tapos mag excuse ka na may gagawin ka, pag nangulit sa sms wag mo replayan or block mo agad. She'll eventually get the message. Basta iwasan mo lang ng iwasan makakahalata din yan. Ganyan ginagawa ko pag gusto ko iwasan ang isang tsiks ng hindi nakakabastos.

Besides, dami namang mga pinay dyan na pwede syotain para lang may mapaglibangan ka. Tsumamba ka sa lucky plaza nung mga pumupunta para mag remit tapos diskartehan mo na lang. Kahit pa nakatali yan makukuha pa rin sa bolahan yan. Alam mo naman dyan, kung sino pa yung mga naka work pass sila pa yung mas wild hehe.... :sweat: :lol:

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2017 7:48 pm
by Sn@kemaru
^ Yun o! mukhang very experienced si sir grayfox sa larangan ng bolahan. hehe

@javachips: actually, cold nga sana ang gagamitin ko word pero naisip ko na baka kapag naging cold ka na towards her ay masamain naman nya. I think, wala naman sya ginagawang masama sa iyo. Hindi lang natin makuha talaga kung ano ang balak nya. Baka nga friendship lang ang habol nya or baka naman may chance din kayo pero may humahadlang lang sa girl para pumasok sa relationship (i.e. past relationships, family, another guy na gusto din niya, etc.) at hindi niya ito pa ma-confide sa iyo. May mga girls din kasi na matagal mag-tiwala ng deepest desires and secrets nila.

Yun misis ko hindi pala-kibo yun kung hindi mo kakausapin. Mapapanis ang laway mo kapag katabi o kasama mo yun. Pero nung naging kami, dun ko na nalaman ang totoong pagkatao niya. Nandun yun inaway ako kasi bakit daw hindi na namin napag-uusapan yun kasal. Eh di ilang months lang pinakasalan ko na. :)

I think type mo rin naman si girl pero hindi lang niya masakyan yun gusto mo sana mangyari. Be the gentleman na lang para wala sa iyo masabi if you will be 'cold' towards her.

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2017 7:55 pm
by grayfox17
^hehe...hindi naman ako eh, naririnig rinig ko lang sa tabi-tabi. :sweat:

Pero totoo yun pre, sa SG (and im sure kahit sa ibang bansa din) madali lang magsyota kasi syempre kanya-kanyang pangungulila yan so hahanap ka talaga ng "past time" ika nga. Yung tipong sabay pa uuwi ng pinas tapos pag lampas ng immigration counter hindi na magkakilala. :lol: Madalas madaling magka-hulugan ng loob at umaabot pa nga sa point na nagli-livein bilang mag syota; walang kamuwang muwang ang mga housemates na pareho na pala may asawa't anak yung dalawa hehe...

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2017 10:57 am
by javaChip56
Update:

I don't know if this means anything.. Or I'm just reading between the lines too much..

Nung Friday night, nung nag-uusap kame dun sa tahimik na lugar na tinatambayan nya dati, napunta yung conversation namin about sa pagsusuot nya ng dress sa office.. Sabi nya, bihira sya magsuot ng dress sa office which was true. Minsan ko lang sya makita magsuot ng dress, madalas pants and blouse top. Ang sabi nya, nagsusuot lang sya ng dress kung pupunta sya sa sports club after work para mag-swimming.. kasi madali daw tanggaling at isuot.. *wink wink*
Ang sabi ko, "you look prettier in a dress. Why not wear one more often?".. She smiled, looked at away and shrugged it off..

Yesterday, she was wearing a dress.. I asked if she was going to the pool after work, but nope!
Today, dress again, asked again if she was going for a swim later. Nope! I'm starting to feel like a douche asking the same question..

It may be a coincidence, but let's see what she wears tomorrow..
But then again, some girls just like the attention.. nothing more, nothing less..

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2017 11:03 am
by grayfox17
javaChip56 wrote:Update:

I don't know if this means anything.. Or I'm just reading between the lines too much..
Pre, you just answered your own question. :sweat:

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2017 11:15 am
by javaChip56
grayfox17 wrote:
javaChip56 wrote:Update:

I don't know if this means anything.. Or I'm just reading between the lines too much..
Pre, you just answered your own question. :sweat:
Tinest ko lang kung magccrash yung site pag nag-post ako..

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2017 8:09 pm
by Sn@kemaru
^ I think she acknowledged your suggestion to wear dresses. Besides, most girls like to be flattered.
Pero hindi pa rin ibig sabihin na porke't nag-dress siya ay dahil sa iyo. Then again, perhaps nga. hehe

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2017 8:29 pm
by grayfox17
^^or maybe mina-menyek mo lang sya kaya nakadress hahah.... if there's one thing i know about singaporean girls that are really good at, its definitely on how to dress up real well. Sa mga hindi nakakaalam, pag pumorma ang mga SG girls, talagang porma talaga. Mapapanganga ka nalang sa getup nila. Magagaling pa mag-make up yang mga yan. :sweat: :lol: Yung porma ng mga pinay dito sa pinas na pang gimik or party, sa sg girls pang araw araw lang sa kanila yun. :agree:

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2017 8:58 pm
by javaChip56
Hindi pa din nagddown ang site.. :D


On Topic:
Hindi naman sa minemenyek.. hehehe..
Bihira kasi sya mag-dress, kaya pansin talaga pag nagsuot sya nun.. Pero sabi nyo nga, women enjoy being flattered..

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2017 9:26 pm
by grayfox17
kanina pre nagdown, saglit lang naman hehehe...

kaya dapat idetalye mo na mga kwento mo bago pa magdown ulit ang site ... :sweat:

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Tue Feb 07, 2017 8:11 pm
by javaChip56
Update:
I asked her to "Be my Valentine". I got a yes..
Pero ayaw nyang lumabas on 14th.. Crowded daw.. :sweat:

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Tue Feb 07, 2017 8:13 pm
by grayfox17
^ yun oh! :shock: mapapabilis ang pagiging citizen mo nyan pre! baka next chapter nyan diretso na sa ROM nyahahah... :lol:

Re: Heart Attack Thread (Usapang busted, Lovelife, atbp)

Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2017 7:34 pm
by Sn@kemaru
^^ uy.. improving.
abangan ang susunod na kabanata. hehe